There is an old joke about two church leaders who could not agree on how churches should be led.
Neither was willing to back down, but after an intense evening of arguing, one leader finally decided to bring an end to the bickering. “Fine! Let’s agree to disagree,” he said. “You do church your way, and I will do it God’s way”.
I’m writing this in a week full of leaders’ meetings in Manchester, Liverpool and Chester as well as an Intercultural church forum in Wolverhampton. It is so encouraging for us to see so much energy and passion from churches that want to collaborate to make Jesus known in their region.
However, the kind of unity that changes the spiritual atmosphere of a region does not come easily.
Whether it is personality clashes, leadership expectations, theological differences or cultural divisions, the path that unity leads us down confronts us with some of the hardest and most complicated challenges in ministry. The temptation time and again is to think that it is easier and faster to do it by yourself than it is with others.
Yet in Acts 2, we see the unity of the early church: “Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts. They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts”. It may take time and commitment, but we can achieve so much more together than we can by ourselves.
So, if you are pulling leaders together for the first time or looking to go to the next level in your city, here are three important principles to remember:
1. Set your expectations
The worst punch I ever received was the one that I didn’t see coming. Paul says in Ephesians 4:3 that we must “make every effort to maintain the unity of the Spirit”. He is saying that even though our unity comes from God and is given to us, we should expect it to require effort and to bring challenges. As leaders, we know this: nothing in ministry flourishes when it is not being cared for. Unity is hard work… but we are called to roll our sleeves up and get our hands dirty.
Even though our unity comes from God and is given to us, we should expect it to require effort”
2. Set a compelling centre
What is the bond that holds your unity together? What is it that people are coming together for?
- A church for every 1000?
- Every man, woman and child to hear the gospel?
- A rising tide in the city of stronger and more generous churches supporting one another?
Whatever your vision is, keep it clear and keep talking about it. The purpose of your unity must outweigh the cost of the challenges. If you forget the compelling centre, then you are in danger of being distracted or disheartened. Unity is hard work… but it matters.
3. Set a clear boundary
What is the difference between a light and a laser? Focus (and the subsequent ability to cut diamonds). How focused is your unity?
Unity always has a bond (sticky centre) and a boundary (edges or limitations) that work together to create culture and impact. If the centre and the edges of your unity are not in synergy with one another, then you will inevitably experience unnecessary distractions and frustrations.
The boundary of your unity will likely have some theological elements and some practical ones. For example, I spoke to a group recently whose vision was to share the gospel, but they could not agree on what the gospel meant. The centre and the edges were not clear, which caused unnecessary confusion and lost clarity. Boundaries protect unity and help people to have confidence in what you are for. Unity is hard… so it must be protected.
Where next?
Are you expecting challenges?
What is the compelling centre of your unity?
Do the boundaries that you have created guard the centre that compels you and focuses the energy on what matters most? Feel free to use the Evangelical Alliance basis of faith if you need some theological boundaries – many do.
What if revival grows in unity?
Wherever I see churches flourishing, I also find gospel-centred unity